Coming
to Grips with Depression
Sermon by Neil Earle
(Ephesians 2:3-6): "God who is rich in mercy, even when we were
dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ and raised us up together
and made us sit in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus."
Causes for stress and depression:
- The World Situation: No one is safe in today’s world. Terrorism is a
constant threat. Consider the thought of a dirty bomb exploding in Los
Angeles.
- Heredity: Alcoholism, homosexuality, overweight are all influenced by
genetics.
- Failed Relationships: The death of a spouse, a child, or a divorce,
usually takes two years to get over.
- The Church: Is a cause of stress for members of the Worldwide Church
of God. We’ve come through so many changes that it creates "culture shock."
Other churches are going through changes as well. This church is not about
Saturday or Sunday, but about Ephesians 1-3.
- The Mystery of Ourselves: Mr. Armstrong was more of a Christian
philosopher than a theologian.
Recommended reading: Scott Peck’s
book The Road Less
Traveled is an excellent source of help for dealing with depression and
anxiety. Peck was depressed for an entire year when he turned fifty-five. He
didn’t know the cause, but just toughed it out. After a year he came out of the
depression, having learned a great deal from the experience.
Peck recognized the whole process is one of confronting and
solving problems. It is through the pain of confronting problems that we grow
mentally and spiritually. He recommends that we "welcome" the pain of problems.
In fearing the pain, we attempt to avoid the problems. The tendency to avoid
problems is the first basis of mental illness. A person tries to avoid problems
by the use of drugs, food, relationships, etc. which only creates bigger
problems resulting in neurosis. Neurosis is a substitute for facing problems. In
mental illness, people stop growing. How then can we get a grip?
- Remember God’s Promises.
(1 Corinthians 10:31): "Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or
whatsoever you do, do all to the glory of God." God is faithful and will make
the way to bear whatever the problem is.
- Learn to go with the flow instead of resisting the chance to grow through
adversity.
(Jonah 1). The case history of a schizoid. The background of
Jonah is found in 2 Kings 14:23. Who was Jonah? He was a very successful
prophet as long as God was working through Jonah’s paradigm, "Israel good,
Gentiles bad." God had a different paradigm, and
when Jonah was told to go to Nineveh he tried to escape. While on board the
ship, during the storm, Jonah was asleep and probably in a state of acute
depression. He was willing to be thrown overboard, facing death rather than to
face his problems. After God forces Jonah to carry out His mission, and face
the situation. Jonah exhibits anger and God treats him like a psychologist
saying, "Jonah, you’re angry." God had broken Jonah’s paradigm. He broke up
Jonah’s old thought processes and opinions – just as
we need to learn to give up our old thought patterns and opinions.
- Cultivate a sense of the ridiculous. Humor is an antidote to depression
and stress. Great men can sort of laugh and find something humorous in the
face of adversity.
- Be ready for your next teacher. God sends people all the time, perhaps in
church or at work, to teach us things. Be open, be ready and have an ear for
wisdom.
(Daniel 5:11): "There is a man in your kingdom, in whom is the
spirit of the holy gods; and in the days of your father light and understanding
and wisdom, like the wisdom of the gods, was found in him; whom the king
Nebuchadnezzar your father, the king, I say, your father, made master of the
magicians, astrologers, Chaldeans, and soothsayers."
It’s important to remember God’s promises. Learn to go with the
flow. "If you’ve been around this long, you might as well stick around and see
how things turn out."
(Hebrews 13:5): "Let your conduct be without covetousness; and be
content with such things as you have: for he has said, I will never leave you,
nor forsake thee."
Sermon summary prepared by local
Glendora church members John & Pat Hopkinson.